uplevel your father daughter relationship

One on One, Confidential Coaching

Raising daughters is hard, sometimes you just need extra help, a sounding board, a sanity check, a plan. Coaching equips you with a clear personalized game plan so you can connect with her heart, lead with confidence, and enjoy the journey—without uncertainty, fear, and worry about regrets.

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You don't have to 'wing it' anymore.

I'm talking directly to you dad ... a manly, loving father doesn't let his 'macho' or pride get in the way. He ditches the lie that 'things will get better on its own'. He doesn't let what other people might think or say, sway what he knows is best. He knows he doesn't have to go it alone.

Being a dad to daughters is both rewarding and overwhelming. One day she’s little and holding your hand… the next she’s grown and making her own decisions. In between, you face big challenges and questions: How do I connect with her? What do I say when she’s hurting? How do I guide her without pushing her away? How do I fix what I've broken?

Most dads just try and “figure it out” as they go, but the cost is missed opportunities, broken trust, and guaranteed regrets later in life. The truth? You don’t need to wing it anymore—you need a plan.

What does coaching look like?

A clear game plan for every stage, every age.

Girl Dad Plan Coaching blends short, focused teaching with live, personal coaching and simple at-home challenges. Think of it as “edutainment” meets accountability. You’ll walk away from each session with practical steps you can use right away.

What's included:

A 90-minute kickoff call to create your personalized Girl Dad Game Plan.
Coaching sessions with clear action steps (via phone, zoom, or in-person).
Text/audio check-ins between sessions to keep you encouraged and on track.
The 5 Steps Girl Dad Plan Playbook.
- Easy to follow and apply convo starters, healthy rituals, and family 'turbo boosts'.
- Question guides designed for daughters at any stage, any age.
Optional in-person, customized coaching sessions available (see questions section below)

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Learn the 5 Plays for any stage, any age.

Play 1: Purpose – Know your family values and direction.

Play 2: Presence – Show up consistently with attention, and healthy rituals.

Play 3: Provision – Meet her physical, emotional, and spiritual needs.

Play 4: Protection – Guard her heart, boundaries, and future.

Play 5: Preparation – Equip her to succeed with confidence and faith.

Here's what changes.

This isn’t about theory—it’s about transformation you and your daughter can feel right away. When you commit to coaching, you’ll:

Gain clarity and confidence in your role as a girl dad.

Develop a shared family language that strengthens connection.

Create rhythms that build trust and closeness w/ your daughter.

Lead well through mom and daughter challenges.

Learn tools for navigating all the emotions.

Replace future regret with meaningful memories.

No more second-guessing.

No more hoping it all 'works out'.

You’ll have a clear, actionable plan.

meet your coach

Kevin Wallenbeck

With my wife of 32+ yrs, I’ve raised and launched 3 daughters through all the emotions, all the pink, all the attitudes, the drama, the ‘girl stuff’, the middle and high school years, the little and big choices, Over the years, I learned how to take the mystery out of being a girl dad.

Now I’m benefiting from the relationships I built with my daughters, developing connections with my son-in-laws, and enjoying the grand kiddos in ways that I never could have imagined.

My mission? Help you stay connected with your daughter through grade school, the teenage years, and into adulthood. One conversation, one action at a time, learn to be a dad that is crushing it with your daughter.

Have Questions?

Is this for dads of younger or older daughters?

If your daughter is between the ages of 5 and 25 the 5 Plays Playbook and the coaching will strip away the mystery and uncertainty, your confidence will grow, and your father daughter relationship will be equipped to win together.

Is this coaching, counseling, or therapy?

Coach, mentor, counselor ... all three of these words are what Girl Dad Plan Coaching is all about. Kevin has a successful 32+ yr marriage, is a 3x champion at raising mature daughters and is a certified IBCD biblical counselor. Kevin does not provide advice as a licensed therapist.

What if I have a busy schedule?

All the more important for you to have an intentional plan and accountability while raising your daughter. While Kevin's schedule fills up quickly, he is committed to finding time that blends well into your schedule.

Is the coaching in person or virtual?

It depends on your needs and desires. Most coaching sessions are over the phone or video/zoom. However, for those who desire to be face to face Kevin can travel to you. Face to face is often desired by professionals seeking higher impact, confidentiality, and discreetness. When you apply for coaching, you can indicate which you prefer.

How long does it take to get results?

Most Girl Dads see results within two weeks. The 5 Plays are designed to 'habit stack' into your current daily routines as much as possible so many dads experience change rather quickly. There are some situations that require more time, more specific effort due to wounds from previous bad parenting and/or volatile dad/mom and mom/daughter relationship dynamics.

Should my wife know I'm doing this 'girl dad coaching thing'?

If at all possible, YES, absolutely. Most often when our wives know we are being serious and intentional in the relationships with our daughter, our wife also feels supported and encouraged. Girl Dad Coaching is a WIN WIN for your marriage and relationship with your daughter!

What if I'm a single dad, will coaching still help?

No matter your father/daughter situation, the 5 Plays are equip and enable every dad to make more meaningful connection with his daughter. While the dynamics and application might be slightly different, the coaching principles and relationship mechanics are the same.

Why aren't there any testimonials on this page?

Good question. As mentioned earlier, Kevin offers personal one on one girl dad coaching confidentially and discreetly. He is committed to protecting the identities of his clients.

What if Girl Dad Coaching doesn't' work for me?

If after 4 sessions of coaching, you've followed just one of the Plays, and you aren't having more peace or making progress, Kevin will refund your coaching fees.

You Only Get ONE Shot at This ...

The years go by fast. You can’t get them back—but you can decide to be intentional right now. With the right plan and support, you’ll build trust, connection, and confidence that lasts a lifetime. Don't wait, limited time slots available. The sooner you act, the sooner you ditch any regrets and get the peace that comes by leading with purpose and presence!